Why Should Rules Be Set For Family Fights?
Posted on 31. Oct, 2010 by raiders1 in People
It is very essential to “fight” fairly. Every couple should develop some sort of ground rules in their relationship
when it comes to fights and arguments. When you get into an argument without any ground rules set, there tends to be a lot of mean, nasty comments made in the heat of the moment. Things are blurted out with out any thought or consideration for the other persons feelings.
People tend to go for the jugular especially when they know your soft, defenseless area and everyone has one. Someone who is attacking fairly tend to go elsewhere. Couples should focus on a specific topic, and it should be the one that started the fight in the first place. Sometime people will criticize the other for things that can’t even be changed, like a physical blemish, or being overweight. None of that is fair, and if you love that person why attack them with something you know will really hurt and they can’t do anything about it.
Minor irritations do fester, such as your spouse throwing the dirty clothes on the floor and leaving them there, or when you talk with your mouth full of food, or leaving the toilet seat up. You don’t want to keep this all held in because you will just get more and more mad and then when a fight occurs anything and everything starts to come out and it is not a pretty site. Try to set some rules when everything is calm. Don’t give up easily on a fight or in your relationship. You might regret it later.
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